The Right Answers?

Gal - I don't wanna complicate your life.
Guy - No, I want all the complication you got.
Gal - Maybe you should go.
Guy - Maybe you should stay.

Quote "Deception" movie

Following Your Heart

The saying goes... 'follow your heart'..

I suppose this is a good saying,
but it doesn't necessarily lead to fairytale-like happy endings.
When our conscience intrudes,
I guess that's when we should follow our conscience instead.
'Follow your heart' can become our biggest excuse or reason to hurt others, the ones we love, and also ourselves.

After all,
our conscience is God-given.
Conscience will always tell the truth,
(perverted mentality excluded)
following it will never go wrong.

They say 'follow your heart',
I say 'follow your conscience'.

The Secret

[The Secret] is basically a new age self-help book claiming it holds the 'secret' of the universe. In a nutshell, the secret is about harnessing the huge potential of our mind to get us whatever we want (calling this the 'law of attraction').

Is this really the Secret?
Personally I think its a blend of truths and falsehoods.
It has one of the biggest truth in it but it also blends in the biggest falsehood or sin there is.
Of course there's some truths in it.
That's what makes it persuasive and believable.
But how much truths and which are truths are up to the reader to find out.

Don't believe something because it is different,
or cool, or easy, or unique, etc.
Believe simply because it is the Truth.

笨女人

友人甲说女人真笨。
明知吃亏牺牲也心甘情愿，死心塌地。

男人知道友人甲的弱点。
就善加利用，详细过程不方便在此叙述。
友人甲明知如此，也只埋怨自己笨。
但说了嘴角还挂着一丝甜甜的微笑。

我对友人乙说了。
友人乙说女人恋爱中IQ最少减低一半。
让我想起李紋‘美丽笨女人’这首歌。

其实何止女人笨。
男人有时也很笨。
一段感情里有笨女人，聪明男人；
但也有笨男人，聪明女人。
我想只要一方懂得珍惜保护另一方的天真‘愚笨’，
那过程结局一定十分完美美丽。
当然，如果有两个笨男人笨女人在一起会更好吧！

New Year Resolutions '09

1. Lose some weight. At least 10kgs. Better diet and less meat! 
2. Fix up all residual physical damages and get back into sports. 
3. Successfully pursue 'the' gal of my dreams (This comes after the above because looking fit maybe a crucial criteria to my success).
4. Getting a handicap of 30 at least in golf (Currently around the 70-80 mark).
5. Charity.
6. Try out all good food in Perth and beyond!
7. Having at least one additional investment.
8. Try out something new.
9. Spicing up life in Perth!

9 resolutions for 2009. No 1st or last in this list.
It will be a very wonderful year. Don't you guys think so too?